I wouldn't want to be with anyone that used drugs - recreational or otherwise - and though that seems pretty judgemental of me, then I have to live with that decision and it might be my loss but it will be theirs too.
I completely agree with this, I feel the same. But who am I to tell people what to do. I have said I would never preach to something about taking drugs. Those close to me know I don't agree with it and if my friends or their partners have done drugs and they let it slip to me they straight away start to make excuses. My own family members have done it and I'm disappointed, but I don't tell them they shouldn't do it.
My brother once said to me, he would rather I did cannabis over sniffing poppers. Because hes pro cannabis and hes homophobic. I thought it was ridiculous. Cannabis is completely different from poppers. With poppers you are lucky if the sensation lasts 10 seconds. And I haven't had poppers for ages coz the shop where we bought it closed down.