Joe - more idiotic than most.
People with blinkers on never want to see, and just find a way forward through belittlement of others. You just have to think of it as their problem.
Blimey, you've really got a thing for me, haven't you? Sorry love, I'm already taken.
Did you not see the smiley directed at Nigel?
Oops, I've given you the attention you wanted.