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How do you feel right now?

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She's half my age, we got too close for comfort afterwards in reality.

I'm going to try filling in the blanks, because your response is a little ambiguous. Tell me if this is how it is:

- You stepped in to support this girl because no-one else would.
- You became her knight in shining armour because you defended her.
- You became her Justin Bieber.
- You liked her and was flattered by her attention.
- Then you started to realise how it might look to others.
- Which, in turn, made you feel insecure.
- You started to distance yourself from her.
- Now you feel bad.

Is this on/off/near the mark?


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I'm going to try filling in the blanks, because your response is a little ambiguous. Tell me if this is how it is:

- You stepped in to support this girl because no-one else would.
- You became her knight in shining armour because you defended her.
- You became her Justin Bieber.
- You liked her and was flattered by her attention.
- Then you started to realise how it might look to others.
- Which, in turn, made you feel insecure.
- You started to distance yourself from her.
- Now you feel bad.

Is this on/off/near the mark?




Close, I didn't start to feel bad about it or distance myself, or feel insecure, in fact I rather enjoyed the friendship and attention, no matter how it looked to others, actually I became rather blinded to others opinions because we developed a short term friendship that was pretty intense.
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In what way was it "intense?"
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Nah.......he just cares about someone who needed help

That what I thought too. Shrug
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Feel like utter crap again.
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Hey Gangsta , been reading your story mate. It's tough when we miss people we have a bond with eh ? You'll be fine though. What happened with you and your friend was a positive thing for both of you and that,it seems to me, is the thought you need to hold on to. You should never regret forming a bond with another human being - it really doesn't happen that often. You say you won't see her again. Maybe not, but you can't be sure of that. I'm just a rambling old git who knows bugger all about anything, but I do know from experience that life can throw up some amazing stuff at times - the future is yet to happen ! Either way, you shouldn't feel too bad :-)
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Hey Gangsta , been reading your story mate. It's tough when we miss people we have a bond with eh ? You'll be fine though. What happened with you and your friend was a positive thing for both of you and that,it seems to me, is the thought you need to hold on to. You should never regret forming a bond with another human being - it really doesn't happen that often. You say you won't see her again. Maybe not, but you can't be sure of that. I'm just a rambling old git who knows bugger all about anything, but I do know from experience that life can throw up some amazing stuff at times - the future is yet to happen ! Either way, you shouldn't feel too bad :-)

Thanks Sid.
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No worries G ! Have a great day, mate.
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Feel like utter crap again.

Since Sid has said it all, just a hug from me. You'll be fine, Gangsta. hug
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Since Sid has said it all, just a hug from me. You'll be fine, Gangsta. hug

Will I though? I'm not so sure, she relied on me  to keep in contact with her etc. and to see her again.
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Will I though? I'm not so sure, she relied on me  to keep in contact with her etc. and to see her again.
And will you do that?
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And will you do that?

I might have been able to if she gave me the right number and I gave her the right one too. :/
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Hey Gangsta , been reading your story mate. It's tough when we miss people we have a bond with eh ? You'll be fine though. What happened with you and your friend was a positive thing for both of you and that,it seems to me, is the thought you need to hold on to. You should never regret forming a bond with another human being - it really doesn't happen that often. You say you won't see her again. Maybe not, but you can't be sure of that. I'm just a rambling old git who knows bugger all about anything, but I do know from experience that life can throw up some amazing stuff at times - the future is yet to happen ! Either way, you shouldn't feel too bad :-)

Nice post sid! Knew there was something bout you that I liked Smile
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Like ****.
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Feeling OK for the moment, but no doubt something will trigger me to think about her again and I'll be reduced to my miserable self once again.
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