Is your's something like this? This will be our cabinets, except bottom cabinets grey and uppers white.. and also different door handles. Countertop quarz, white with very subtle grey vein.
With all respect Linda, I couldn't live with either of those colour schemes, especially as the kitchen, with all that white, and the lights, looks like something you'd find in a hospital. I'm not into dark colours either but prefer mine a little warmer and more muted.