sorry, but I am a girl without that particular inferiority complex... one can generalise too far...

Absolutely!
Personally I've got two olders brothers and they have been better than me at most stuff. Even now, one of my brothers thinks he knows more about tennis than I do

But some of the things that I wasn't so good at I stopped caring that someone was better than it at me. Even now, I play games on MSN with a friend and I pretty much always loose but I don't care.
That's what my ex gf was like. (not you Amy don't worry)
Well obviously its not me
