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Re: Randomness
« on: March 15, 2011, 06:46 pm »
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Quote from: Mark on March 15, 2011, 12:26 pm
Because I try and imagine myself in his position and I find it scary considering how young I am.
Yeah I chat to folk my age with kids and it terrifies me
I love kids...but I'm so not ready to be a mother and look after one 24/7
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Re: Randomness
« on: March 15, 2011, 07:00 pm »
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I hope that everyone is doing well - must check later.
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Re: Randomness
« on: March 15, 2011, 07:32 pm »
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Yeah I chat to folk my age with kids and it terrifies me
I love kids...but I'm so not ready to be a mother and look after one 24/7
What age do you see yourself considering it?
This is an important question to me if there is ever going to be a love connection between us.
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Re: Randomness
« on: March 15, 2011, 07:41 pm »
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What age do you see yourself considering it?
This is an important question to me if there is ever going to be a love connection between us.
Hmm well I don't want to be someone who is mid thirties and just having kids, if I could plan it, I'd say late 20's - 28/29
From the beginning of a relationship to marriage I see a length of time of about 3 years, then at least a year before I would want to start a family. Of course, you never know what's possible there
and much as I love kids, I could also picture life without having my own
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« on: March 15, 2011, 07:41 pm »
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Sh*t, this is why I'm worried about dating people in their late 20s, they'll just want to lock you in for a kid immediately.
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Re: Randomness
« on: March 15, 2011, 07:48 pm »
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Sh*t, this is why I'm worried about dating people in their late 20s, they'll just want to lock you in for a kid immediately.
Depends on the person, as I said, that would be nice...but if I don't end up getting married till I'm say 28/9 then I'll not be wanting kids till I'm about 31 at the earliest
Some woman want to rush to have kids, I want to enjoy the first years of marriage before becoming sleep deprived
I'm sure you're coffee date lady isn't going to try and trap you and use you as a baby making machine
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« on: March 15, 2011, 07:51 pm »
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Is it rushing? I just assumed girls in their late 20s early 30s start worrying about their biological clock and when it will be too late.
I don't want a bloody kid until I'm like 40 but I couldn't be allowed that freedom in a relationship as women can't afford to wait that long.
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« on: March 15, 2011, 07:56 pm »
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Is it rushing? I just assumed girls in their late 20s early 30s start worrying about their biological clock and when it will be too late.
I don't want a bloody kid until I'm like 40 but I couldn't be allowed that freedom in a relationship as women can't afford to wait that long.
That is the problem, and it's not just the biological clock, but also the worry as there is a higher percentage of health problems in children born to older mothers. All you have to do Mark is play the field, then when you hit the age when you want to have kids, marry a 27 year old
..basically someone who is around the age of 10 just now
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Re: Randomness
« on: March 15, 2011, 07:59 pm »
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That is the problem, and it's not just the biological clock, but also the worry as there is a higher percentage of health problems in children born to older mothers. All you have to do Mark is play the field, then when you hit the age when you want to have kids, marry a 27 year old
..basically someone who is around the age of 10 just now
You're bang on and this is how I'd like to do it. But I don't want to be falling in love and breaking-up all the time
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Re: Randomness
« on: March 15, 2011, 08:01 pm »
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You're bang on and this is how I'd like to do it. But I don't want to be falling in love and breaking-up all the time
So find someone and be happy
if it turns out you're plan works, go with it...more likely when you find the right woman, you'll take her plans and dreams, your plans and dreams and then come out with a mixture and compromise of them
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« on: March 15, 2011, 08:05 pm »
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Received an e-mail a few minutes ago. My tutor has a thing for me, clearly.
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