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Clydey
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Quote from: Quackers on September 29, 2010, 06:30 pm
I shall never express my honest opinion again Smile

There's no point if you're going to throw a wobbler whenever people disagree with you.
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Sir Panda
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Quote from: Quackers on September 29, 2010, 06:30 pm
I shall never express my honest opinion again Smile

I have no idea how you have got so far in life by acting like a petulant child everytime someone holds an opposing viewpoint to you. Baffling.
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Quackers
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Its you lot who have to drill people into thinking your way!!  Luckily real live is nothing like this joke of a forum.
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Quackers
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I am so clever that sometimes I don't understand a single word of what I am saying. 
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top_spin
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I can't even be bothered.... lmao
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Neil
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Quote from: top_spin on September 29, 2010, 09:50 pm
I can't even be bothered.... lmao

good post
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tennis_girl
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That was amusing, thanks for that. clap
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Hazybear
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Wow and to think that this all started because I started talking about sex Rolling Eyes

The problem with emotions and discussing them is that despite generally accepted definitions, we all have different perceptions and experiences of them, which mean that we're always coming at things from other angles. One of the great things about us all being unique Smile

I can get what Amy is saying in a way, that she hasn't experienced a relationship where she has felt mutual love. Obviously other relationships that she has seen add to her viewpoint that 'love' isn't mutual or lasting. But then that goes back to what we were thinking about love as being, is it the passion or is it the ability to still comfort and support each other after 50 years together?
Amy you're brother got married recently, just out of true curiosity and not trying to undermine what you are saying but- do you then believe that one of them loves the other more, or doesn't feel that they are each others 'true love'? Just wondering Smile

I also get that you want to feel comfortable and complete as yourself, without needing a guy to make you complete. I get that and agree, again to a point. I know that before I can be happy in a relationship then I need to be at least moderately happy with myself Smile For me a mutual loving and strong relationship means that while you love, want and need each other, you both bring the strengths and weaknesses of being two complete people into being one-a couple. I also know that love comes unexpectedly for the most part Smile so I can try and plan other parts of my life (coz that's gone so well recently Rolling Eyes ) but I can't plan or timetable in falling in love.
I'm also very aware that much as I would love have someone that loved me for who I am, and have a relationship, family and life with them; that there are people out there who are never really in a long-term relationship. Sometimes I wonder if that's what God has in mind for me Smile Part of me hopes not but another part of me could see that as a possible future. So while I'd love for love Smile to happen in my life, I want to make sure that I don't waste my life pinning for something that could never happen. I want to live my life to the full and whether that's with someone beside me or by myself, we'll just have to see Smile

Wow totally didn't mean to ramble for this long blush
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Sir Panda
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Quote from: Quackers on September 29, 2010, 07:45 pm
I am so clever that sometimes I don't understand a single word of what I am saying.

True dat.
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top_spin
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roflmao
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Quackers
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Oscar Wilde, genious!
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Sir Panda
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Quote from: Quackers on September 29, 2010, 11:24 pm
Oscar Wilde, genious!

I'd say he was more of a genius.
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Quackers
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Thank you I was waiting for someone to correct me, I couldn't be arsed checking lol
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Quackers
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Ooooooooooooooooooooooh didn't see this!!!!

Quote from: HazelMP on September 29, 2010, 11:10 pm
The problem with emotions and discussing them is that despite generally accepted definitions, we all have different perceptions and experiences of them, which mean that we're always coming at things from other angles. One of the great things about us all being unique Smile

Well said clap

Quote from: HazelMP on September 29, 2010, 11:10 pm
I can get what Amy is saying in a way, that she hasn't experienced a relationship where she has felt mutual love. Obviously other relationships that she has seen add to her viewpoint that 'love' isn't mutual or lasting. But then that goes back to what we were thinking about love as being, is it the passion or is it the ability to still comfort and support each other after 50 years together?
Amy you're brother got married recently, just out of true curiosity and not trying to undermine what you are saying but- do you then believe that one of them loves the other more, or doesn't feel that they are each others 'true love'? Just wondering Smile

I think they get along with each other, and they've been seeing each other for nine years and its habit and they don't know any better.  My brother got married because she wanted it.  I think if she had never asked it would have never been done.  My other brother is engaged to his gf of about nine years too, they have two kids together and a mortgage.  They are tied together for the best part of the near future so they get on with it.

Quote from: HazelMP on September 29, 2010, 11:10 pm
I also get that you want to feel comfortable and complete as yourself, without needing a guy to make you complete. I get that and agree, again to a point. I know that before I can be happy in a relationship then I need to be at least moderately happy with myself Smile For me a mutual loving and strong relationship means that while you love, want and need each other, you both bring the strengths and weaknesses of being two complete people into being one-a couple. I also know that love comes unexpectedly for the most part Smile so I can try and plan other parts of my life (coz that's gone so well recently Rolling Eyes ) but I can't plan or timetable in falling in love.
I'm also very aware that much as I would love have someone that loved me for who I am, and have a relationship, family and life with them; that there are people out there who are never really in a long-term relationship. Sometimes I wonder if that's what God has in mind for me Smile Part of me hopes not but another part of me could see that as a possible future. So while I'd love for love Smile to happen in my life, I want to make sure that I don't waste my life pinning for something that could never happen. I want to live my life to the full and whether that's with someone beside me or by myself, we'll just have to see Smile

One would think being in a relationship would make you a better person and fullfill your life more.  From what I've seen in a few couples they devote their whole life to that one person and forget about everyone else.  I would hate if I ever did that.  A partner should be an addition to your family, not the whole thing.

Quote from: Neil on September 29, 2010, 10:52 pm
good post

Mate, you let your gf shag someone behind your back and get away with it.  True ever lasting mutual love is that?!  Thats hilarious! roflmao


And Julia, even though I could see it coming from when you started uni, you split from Andrew.  Hows that mutual love if you wanted to go off and experience other things?  A perfect example of why I think its boll**ks.  The way I see it, Andrew was in love, you was just infatuated.
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Clydey
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Quote from: Quackers on September 30, 2010, 10:51 am

And Julia, even though I could see it coming from when you started uni, you split from Andrew.  Hows that mutual love if you wanted to go off and experience other things?  A perfect example of why I think its boll**ks.  The way I see it, Andrew was in love, you was just infatuated.

That sums up how little you know.
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