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I thought you realised that was a joke :P

No I did not you cheeky f**ker!

(although apparently they fell out shortly after I met them at wimbly..... search me ..... That may be my fault lol )



La story from me POV - I had been speaking to Lola and Kwevus (mainly Lola........ ok, Lola 99% of the time) for ages and we were getting on great. We agreed to meet up at Wimbly in 2006 and we did. Kwevus was very much like Sarah_'s parents and not fond of "internet friends" but Lola was fine with it. We hit it off str8 away and had a really really great 3 days. I went totally out of my way not to sit in the middle of the two of them, or to sit next to Lola on the grass all the time but to swap about and basically involve both girls in the convo etc etc. There was no kissing/hugging or whatever while Kwevus was about either, so as not to make her feel like a 3rd wheel. Anyway, she never felt entirely comfortable at all really, but she did open up a bit by the 3rd day.  


The ONLY time I took Lola away was at the tube station before I left them for the last time, but that was more Kwevus walking along the platform to give us more privacy etc lol Which was really good of her.

Anyway, me and Lola kept in touch for a few months after, but it sort of filtered out and contact grew less and less as her exams grew closer and closer. It was only after this time, I found out that they had fallen out. Lola said it was just kwevus being silly and with her having a new bf etc. I may have had a small part to play in it, but I think it was coming anyway.

I think they stopped using MW, not because of that, but just because they were moving on. I still e-mail Lola now and then to see how she is, and most of the time, she's pretty busy which is good Smile

That's about it. Not the most exciting, though it was a really enjoyable 3 days Smile


The part's in bold are quite important I think. The general gist of your post is fine and it's fair enough to put across your POV, however, later denying that it wasn't some angry post is complete bullshit. The fact that you openly slag me off and call my comments laughable is just poor decorum and clearly a provoked response. I never said anything which made you out to be a bad person or that you did anything wrong, so kindly don't do the same to me.

As for things that Lola may have told me over e-mail, firstly I shall re-iterate that "I think" was used and secondly it was a long time ago. Clearing things up is fine, but why I am I not surprised that you do it in a manner which annoys and upsets me, shock horror. no

Nor did I say you were no longer friends or hadn't made up or anything else since, so there
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And it's on.
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And it's on.


lol  And on another thread somewhere too Very Happy  Better than watching tv sometimes Very Happy
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x(",)x


There's the Caoimhe we know and love!
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 :jerry

I've been dying to use this for ages!! lol
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To be fair, my reply was quite genteel in comparison to normal.
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ah in fairness Mark, I was 17 I knew I liked the guy but I wasn't thinking lasting relationship, I was thinking summer fling!! when I first met him anyway, after a while I knew it would last longer!


But it is true! lol If you did it with the intention of it being a fun short relationship with lots of lust and great sex then yes, you probably should have asked her first but if you did it thinking it could turn out to be something special then your friend is not important.


ugh!! my friend was way more important than some guy we'd only just met!!

Neil I read all your posts, you didn't really need to quote them! I'm sorry if I annoyed or upset you, but I was pretty much in the same boat when i came on here and saw you talking about me, not exactly painting me in the best light (because you didn't know better and didn't know my POV). And yes I do think that one comment about the tube station is laughable. You used the word privacy and it wasn't private, it's a public place. I understand what you mean, I walked away and gave you alone time i guess with Lola but it wasn't private!


I think it was coming anyway.  


This seems fairly definite of your insight into our relationship and I don't appreciate that kind of comment coming from someone who only knows one of us. You spent three days with us so I don't really understand how you can decide it was coming. I know you said you think a lot, that's great, it's your opinion and that's what I'm talking about.

And I don't want to fight with you Neil, that's not why I commented. It really wasn't angry, it would have been had I replied when I first read it, and saw that you were talking about me but I waited. I know it was a long time ago, but I haven't been on to reply, I'm not resentful and holding a grudge or anything like that. I'm simply replying when I got around to it.


I never said anything which made you out to be a bad person or that you did anything wrong, so kindly don't do the same to me.


You're not a bad person and you didn't do anything wrong - I didn't make it out like that. But the fact of the matter is, on that holiday, the right things that you thought you did, include me all that kind of stuff, didn't turn out that well, and I really didn't enjoy those few days. Then again putting a happy face next to a comment saying you may have made too very good friends fall out isn't exactly the nicest thing to do.

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 And yes I do think that one comment about the tube station is laughable. You used the word privacy and it wasn't private, it's a public place. I understand what you mean, I walked away and gave you alone time i guess with Lola but it wasn't private!
There was like 2 or 3 people there as it was the last tube, hardly busy and we were by ourselves where we were standing.


This seems fairly definite of your insight into our relationship and I don't appreciate that kind of comment coming from someone who only knows one of us. You spent three days with us so I don't really understand how you can decide it was coming. I know you said you think a lot, that's great, it's your opinion and that's what I'm talking about.  Well the icon i used was "search me" as in I actually didn't know but was suggesting a possibility, I have no other explanation at the time, and it's quite possible that was the impression I got from Laura in an e-mail/txt/msn message or whatever, bearing in mind it was two years ago.....

And I don't want to fight with you Neil, that's not why I commented. It really wasn't angry, it would have been had I replied when I first read it, and saw that you were talking about me but I waited. I know it was a long time ago, but I haven't been on to reply, I'm not resentful and holding a grudge or anything like that. I'm simply replying when I got around to it. Fair enough Smile



You're not a bad person and you didn't do anything wrong - I didn't make it out like that. But the fact of the matter is, on that holiday, the right things that you thought you did, include me all that kind of stuff, didn't turn out that well, and I really didn't enjoy those few days. Then again putting a happy face next to a comment saying you may have made too very good friends fall out isn't exactly the nicest thing to do.   Again I refer to the fact I used the "search me" icon not a happy face and a "lol" icon, to show that I found it amusing that I MAY have been responsible for two friends falling out, because to be honest that explanation as I said in an earlier post is incredibly unlikely and if I had anything to with it, it was small. It had nothing to do with me being happy at being such a cause and I would never want to actually make it happen, sorry if you misinterpreted my post in that way

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Sorry for the bold letters, was easiest way to reply lol
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here I'm not saying you were standing in the middle of centre court - but it wasn't private so I don't think that was good wording! See you've explained perfectly now that it was "an impression you got" and all that, but from the first post and "it was coming" and "she was silly", it wasn't as obvious! now we all good?! or are the rest of you pumped up for an actual fight? x(",)x
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here I'm not saying you were standing in the middle of centre court - but it wasn't private so I don't think that was good wording! See you've explained perfectly now that it was "an impression you got" and all that, but from the first post and "it was coming" and "she was silly", it wasn't as obvious! now we all good?! or are the rest of you pumped up for an actual fight? x(",)x


They are always pumped up for a fight lol They've come to expect it when it involves me Smile

Sorry for my poor wording, I often reply hastily and posts are indeed often misinterpreted.  hug

And yes we are all good
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here I'm not saying you were standing in the middle of centre court - but it wasn't private so I don't think that was good wording! See you've explained perfectly now that it was "an impression you got" and all that, but from the first post and "it was coming" and "she was silly", it wasn't as obvious! now we all good?! or are the rest of you pumped up for an actual fight? x(",)x


I'll take you on.  I don't know you, but I'm up for it  Sword fight
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I can testify that kwevus waited maybe at least 24 hours before replying to Neil's comments so that would suggest it wasn't an angry reply.
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Caoimhe! You know you and Lola were the first people I ever met online that I spoke to in real life. You weren't that difficult to spot wearing those t-shirts in Aberdeen! But even though we only spoke 5 mins that gave me the guts to meet Neil, and if it wasn't for that I wouldn't have met Mark and Cate, or Julia, most of all Amy, who is now a really close friend and part of my own fab trip to Wimbledon and companion for my up-coming trip to Montreal! I'm sure you didn't know but the fact you guys were so nice have had such a big impact on my life events over the past couple of years. Thank you! It's nice to see you're still kicking about, having fun, supporting Andy and such good friends.
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